Knowing When not to be Afraid

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Walking up to a girl at a bar should not be an intimidating thing. You’re both people and people generally function that same way. Yet for some men, me included approaching a girl is a nerve-racking thing. Does my breath smell fresh? Is my hair neat? Do I have something clever to say? It’s not like her head is going to split open and an alien is going to jump like Aliens, or even better yet, Spaceballs! Yes, I am in love with Rick…